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Advanced many many happy returns of the day, Sweetheart!

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Advanced many many happy returns of the day (Feb 11), twinkling star for all the enlightenment you had given and showered!

Sath Sath Koti Pranam; Sarano me Koti Pranam Shanidev!

Some one guided and helped me with the song of Mahima Shani Dev Ki . I have taken a small picture of Thirunallar Sani and tried to make it as a small video so that people can watch Him besides hearing the chanting. The words re-emphasize the need to stay ethical and deflections from the same are construed very seriously by Shanidev with heightened punishments.

Ennodu Vaa Vaa ...

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ennodu vaa vaa endru solla maaten unnai vittu veru engum poga maaten.. yennodu vaa vaa endru solla maaten unnai vittu veru engum poga maaten.. chella sandai podugiraai thalli nindru thedugiraai ah ah ah anbe ennai thandikka un punnagaiyil manikka unnaku urimai illaiya? yennodu vaa vaa endru solla maaten unnai vittu veru engum poga maaten.. ennodu… vaa vaa endru.. solla maaten.. poga maaten.. kannam thodum koonthal othukka nee saivathum ennai konjam paarkathaanadi kannai moodi thoonguvathai pol nee nadippathu enthan kural ketkathaanadi innum enna santhegam ennai ini ennaalum theeyaaga paarkaathadi chella pillai pola nee adampidippathai enna solla ennai vida yaarum illai anbu seithu unnai vella sandai potta naatkalaithaan enni sella ketukondaal kazhukkum bayanthu nadugum yennodu vaa vaa endru solla maaten unnai vittu veru engum poga maaten.. ennodu… vaa vaa endru.. solla maaten.. poga maaten.. kaathalukku ilakkaname thannaal varum chinna chin...

The Twenty Success Horses

Just like Lord Sun's chariot is pulled up seven horses, there are seven horses to steer one forward in life towards the goal of success. It is the fact how you effectively guide and control the horse and which one so that the appropriate goal is reached. Family's money Family's social and/or political contacts Strong spouse Complimentary Partner Big company Dynamic boss Great Product Unique Idea Ideal location Educational Degree/Scholastic Power Special Experiences Leadership Skills Resource Management Skills Convincing Skills --  Take the test here . Creativity Hard work Smart Work Self-awareness and Self-mastery Lucky ...Any other...?

Introspection Exercise :: How Effective Are your Bargaining/Selling Skills?

Do you often find it difficult, awkward and embarassing To say  no  to a persistent salesman and hence end-up stuffing too many 'junk' things in your household? To return faulty goods back to the shop-keeper? To bargain whilst you buy something? To initiate and/or continue a (healthy and formal) conversation with a stranger? To partake in a vibrant and healthy social conversation? To mingle with a group and hence end up as a lone-wolf in social gatherings and get-to-gethers? To refuse any request from a friend, relative, colleague, co-worker/cow-orker or a relative? To request any favor or assistance from a friend, relative or a co-worker? To pay compliments to a friend, colleague or relative? To criticize a friend, colleague or relative? To accept criticisms from others? To accept compliments graciously and with humility from others? To share the innermost and tender feelings with someone? To refuse extra-work at office or home despite the facts that your ...

Introspection Exercise :: Are you managing time effectively?

Please answer  Yes  or  No  to the following questions and then score yourself on how effectively you can manage time. I am the only one to properly deliver and accomplish the tasks both at work and at home. Most of my time and energy are being taken away in handling daily crisis. I seldom get time in relaxing and focusing on a bit more important things that I really want to do in my life. I always  rush  to complete my jobs or studies as I feel I am behind time. I sometimes (or many times) accept too much work or study beyond my capabilities. I seldom take vacations. I work or study on all days without a break or holiday. I totally believe in an idealistic results or perfection and am venturing to achieve the same by hook or by crook leaving no stones unturned. I usually (and mostly) take my office works (and worries) home. I usually (and mostly) extend my home sentiments (and emotions) to work. I usually (and may be mostly) commit overtim...

Introspection Exercise :: Are you stressed?

Do you often dislike doing home work or going to work? Are you often irritated with your household chores or bored with your work? Did you ever feel that you have chosen a wrong study/course, an incorrect career or a wrong life-partner? Do you often get irritable and lose your temper easily? Do you often take resort to tension relief pills to tide over the day's challenges? Did you ever take refuge with an alcoholic intoxicating equipments to relax yourself? Have you ever felt that people may be and/or laughing at you behind your shoulders? Have you ever nurtured an apprehension that people may be hatching a plot against you? Have you been ever concerned with your sub-ordinates or family members wasting their time when you are head is not visible? Have you been apprehensive at some point of time of any sort of assault on you by some one? Have you been concerned that your work has not got due credits and/or you have not been suitably appreciated? Are you feeling that t...

JQuery is a divine God!

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It had been several weeks (rather months) of a few pending things. Thanks to JQuery  for inspiring me to create cute and quick widgets for the benefit of everyone. The Todolist is now cleaned up and emptied paving way for fresh thinking for novel ideas. Instead of being just another tech-tool, JQuery is stepping into another softskills development gadget helping out larger communities. The latest gadget created with JQuery is here  (which is powered by jPlayer ) and is described here . Thank you, jQuery!

Pitrupaksham (aka) Mahalaya Paksham 2012 -- Chanting Assistance Tool

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Pitrupaksh (aka) Mahalaya Paksham starts tomorrow (1st October 2012). More details about the same from SSRF website article here . Thanks to my gurudev ( Sri Shanidev Maharaj ) for seeding me with this thought to create a small utility compiling the assorted chanting and making use of simple JQuery/JPlayer (HTML5). Most of us stay online at all times for our work and/or mobility reasons. For us, I sincerely hope that  this would be a handy tool to help and assist them in their chanting. Currently my URL plays the audio from SoundCloud. If you are tech-savvy, you can grab the quick WAMPS server and download the set of files to a separate virtual directory and play them offline. Source Download: You can grab the whole source from Codeplex here . Hosted URL:  http://lavanyadeepak.brinkster.net/chanting/

Impediments from self-imposed restrictions

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Sometimes the self-discipline measures which we impose serve as impediments. I was searching for a MySQL Import sources. A website from search page was currently a 404 whereas Google had a cache copy of it. Unfortunately, OpenDNS does not like to use cache services because that circumvents a lot of security measures and policies. Since this is my home network, I can very well hop on to dashboard and relax it for a while. But I will not do it. At least after 2007 New Year Resolution, hurting others by even words, patronage/abetting some thing which serves as a hurt or demonstrates some sort of cheat, infidelity is a taboo to me. So let me Google Search more on MySQL and/or ask in a forum for assistance. Rules are definitely to follow by spirit and not to relax/claim exemption just by our whims and fancies. If we keep poking holes in the firewall and with lot of such holes there is not much wall left in the firewall (citing my favorite quote from Windows Firewall documentation of MS...

Thendral -- Is it a variant of Nirmala?

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In my view, 'Thendral' seems to be going in the path of Nirmala by Munshi Premchand. Here is the synopsis of 'Nirmala'. Nirmala: Nirmala is a story of a little girl who is married at an age of 15 to a person who is 20 years elder to her  after her first marriage being cancelled due to dowry reasons. Nirmala’s husband tries all tactics to woo her but she has only respect and a sense of duty for him and not the love which he expects to develop in her. By his first wife, Totaram has three sons and the eldest is just one year elder to Nirmala. Nirmala who is so tender and inexperienced does not understand that why she likes being with the eldest son and hates her husband. Why she can be comfortable with the son but becomes uncomfortable at even the sight of his man. Then by the inferiority complex and Nirmala’s cold attitude towards Totaram, a seed of mistrust is sown and from there starts the downfall of everything which Nirmala lays her hands on. One by one all the ...

Breezy Thendral is mauled by a draconian typhoon!

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Today's Thendral (21st September 2012) is the height of it. I can not any more tolerate on the atrocities on Tulasi. I am amazed my Tulasi's great deal of endurance, patience, forgiving nature, gratitude and magnanimity not just to noble but even to evil spirits. Should I call it eccentric behavior or brand myself so for even being so much disturbed by the direction of this silver screen presentation? I admit television serials do not originate from the skies. Directors and producers are witnesses in some way of some real life incident, which they base upon and pen their stories to express and convey this to the world.. However, the height of atrocities on poor Tulasi makes me feel volcanic frustration and anger today. I need some sort of counselling to make me distinguish that is just an episode on silver screen and not a real life incident lest I start annihilating some one in 'not-in-my-good-opinion-list'. With immediate effect, my personal advisors sugges...

Many many happy returns of the day, Deepak!

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Dear Deepak ('Thendral Tamil'), Many many happy returns of the day. Deepak (the hero of Thendral) celebrates his birthday on September 15th.

Welcome aboard Thulam!

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Today (Shanivar -- Saturday) Shani transits into Thulam from Kanya rasi. The Kanya rasi goes into the third phase of Saade Saathi and Thulam fraternities step into the second phase of Saade Saathi . Shani has a lot of glories to sing in His name. A more strict and spiritual task master besides a hard-and-fast jury. I admit that there is no 'fast' with him though. He patiently waits a lot  and when the patience expires, the patient has to patiently endure a lot of his 'bliss' or 'curse'. The nature of 'unbiased' state should be learnt and emulated from Him. More duty-bound. King Dasharath who vehemently opposed Shani from entering the Rohini star*, well knowing that opposing Shani is to host a red carpet welcome to death was indeed appreciated and blessed by Shani for his religious duty bound nature of being citizen-protectionist. His song on Shani has been blessed by Shani itself as Dasharath Kruth Shani Stotram which is an effective medicatio...

Photo portfolio with webcam fun ...

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Portfolio 7/22/2012  Just another Sunday but after a hectic chores completed, I just thought would play around a while with webcam and test my skills on photoshop a bit with various effects. Whatever came up has been compiled in the enclosed album. Do share your views on the same too. Perhaps some  of the quick changes in this photo compared to previous ones are: Change in spectacles following an intensively comprehensive eye examination at Gaddie Eye Center about a couple of months back.

Change of 'Lavanya' is unwarranted!

I am not what is causing Vikatan Televistas to make these leaps-and-bounds changes in the character roles of 'Thendral' serial. Sometime back, 'Bhuvana''s role saw a change from Aishwarya to Sudha. Now it is turn for 'Lavanya' to see the change from 'Neelima' to 'Shalu Kurian'. Shalu might have a quick glamourous flare on her face but it can not compare with the convincing vision of 'Neelima' that fits the character of 'Lavanya' better. Particularly when the serial is having important turning points like Bhuvana's shady deals being unearthed, Neelima in my view would befit the role more better. The other significant thing of the serial currently is Bhuvana's pretense of being a timed cancer patient to garner support for her malicious objectives. Poor Thulasi  should realize that all are not saints which go to church. Also it is simply so much disturbance to her distracting from the studies. And I simply can not un...

We vehemently condemn the blatant denigration of Andal by Manonmaniyam Sundaranar University

It is terribly dis-heartening to hear that one of the old universities in Tamil Nadu and which also occupies the blissful position of being in the neighborhood of Sri Villiputhur has committed a blatant and horrendous blunder of scribbling garbage on Andal. A following report has been sent to appropriate authorities on the same. Dear Team, There is a highly disparaging and highly disgusting denigratory attempt of Manonmaniyam Sundaranar University against Andal who is worshipped as a consort of Lord Vishnu and author of Thiruppavai and a number of literary works which are part of Naalayira Divyap Prabhandham. The in-detail news coverage is at  http://www.dinamani.com/edition/story.aspx?&SectionName=Latest%20News&artid=618912&SectionID=164&MainSectionID=164&SEO=&Title=  A snapshot of the same is also enclosed along with this note. The most highly  derogatory  remarks like Andal being treated as a call-girl and a lesser known/unknown king...

Saturday movie -- Engeyum Eppodhum in local channel

Today I had an opportunity to watch a good tamil movie called Engeyum Eppodhum  in the local cable channel. Amidst a lot of weird violence and rampant flirting-laden movies, this seems to stand out in very different ways besides having a little personal touch for obvious reasons. This post would not be another movie review but an endeavor to touch base on a few points which appealed to me. I like the route number '123' (Trichy to Chennai). :) While both the actresses (Anjali and Ananya) have done a commendable performance, the innocent smile and role of Ananya (as Amutha) seems to be drawing more of my attention. Furthermore, the way she presents herself and the sense of humor makes me recall something someone I had an opportunity to meet in the (recent) past. Perhaps the lightening speed appearance of that physical entity and the disappearance in the same speed is another significant thing to note here at least in this context. Thanks to Ananya in being a vehicle facilit...

A venerable optimistic spam ...

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For the past few days, this organization called 'Continental Broadcasting' regularly sends me this interesting spam unsolicited invitation to become part of their Verified Professionals . I am not sure what makes it distinguish them from LinkedIn and how it is going to advance my missions and goals. Another scammer with an intent to rip-off money? Anyways, I should thank them for optimistically making me feel like a celebrity besides giving me and GMX an opportunity to test our anti-spam engines.

RIP Dilip!

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Dilip, an actor better known in the movies of Visu significantly in Samsaram Adhu Minsaram (as Peter Fernandez) and Penmani Aval Kanmani is no more. He breathed his last and succumbed to a cardiac failure on 25th May 2012. Some of the best song-performances of Dilip are: 'Janaki Devi Ramanai Thedi' ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAlFIeHG4yY ) 'Moongil Ilai' ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XP1YTKwLksk&feature=related ) I dedicate the post  whose album video was prepared with Moongil Ilai as the inspiration. It is unfortunate that a lot of major things happened in the memorial day weekend of 2012.