Sunday, October 24, 2010

List of Personality Defects and Desirable Qualities

In any of the living being there is a fine blend of Raja, Tama and Satwaa gunas. The ultimate objective is to ensure a greater per centage of Satwaa and diminishing trends of the former two. As a gentle exercise towards the same we would need to ensure an introspection on what are the various personality defects that we nurture and what are the desirable qualities that we would need to work building towards.

  1. Worrying and brooding on something too much
  2. Succumbing easily to irritability
  3. Untolerable bouts of anxiety
  4. A trend of discouraging others
  5. An attitude of criticizing others
  6. Brandishing rude behavior and/or consequent demonstrated misdemeanour
  7. No tolerance
  8. Short Temper
  9. Quarrelsome
  10. Dominance
  11. Aggressive
  12. Revengeful
  13. Violent
  14. Destructive
  15. Merciless
  16. Cruel
  17. Lack of focus and/or concenteration
  18. Amnesia and/or Forgetfulness
  19. Indecisive
  20. A poor sense of judgement
  21. Impatience
  22. Impusive
  23. Lazy and Lethargic
  24. Untidiness
  25. Irregular and Not Systematic without any planning
  26. Inefficient
  27. Lack of Punctuality
  28. Lacking in Perseverance
  29. Lack of Initiative
  30. Too much of sarcastic humor
  31. An excessive indifference
  32. Ill-mannered
  33. Emotional
  34. Sans sentiment
  35. Sans Analytical
  36. Vague and Pointless talks
  37. Excessive and Heightened Pessimism
  38. Moody
  39. Depressed
  40. Eccentric
  41. Blaming others for no reason
  42. Blaming self for no reason
  43. Envious
  44. Biased
  45. Jealous
  46. Suspicious
  47. Secretive
  48. Apprehensive
  49. Attention-seeking (crazy about craving for fame and popularity)
  50. Too much conservative
  51. Narrow-minded
  52. Adamant and Stubborn
  53. Self-Centered
  54. Selfish and Possesive
  55. Miserly
  56. Lack of Self Confidence
  57. Submissive
  58. Shy
  59. Timid
  60. Inhibited
  61. Inferiority Complex
  62. Unsympathetic
  63. Lack of Caution
  64. Interfering
  65. Undutiful
  66. Disobedient
  67. Unreliable
  68. Unreasonable
  69. Inhospitable
  70. Ungrateful
  71. Corrupt
  72. Disloyal
  73. Immoral
  74. Day-dreaming
  75. Overspending (SpendThrift)
  76. Braggart
  77. Apathetic towards others
  78. Fond of frequent changes (aka) Wavering mind
  79. Over-ambitious
  80. Very perfectionist

The corresponding qualities that are desirable are:

  1. Calm
  2. Carefree and trust in Lord
  3. Appreciating others
  4. Tolerant
  5. Polite
  6. Calm
  7. Even Tempered
  8. Peace-loving
  9. Not-dominant
  10. Non-Aggressive
  11. Forgiving
  12. Constructive
  13. Merciful
  14. Kind
  15. Able to focus/concenterate
  16. Patient
  17. Controlled
  18. Hardworking
  19. Tidy
  20. Systematic and Planned Execution of Works
  21. A good sense of judgement
  22. Punctual
  23. Having initiative
  24. Perseverance
  25. Efficient
  26. Ambitious
  27. Happy-go-lucky
  28. Warm-hearted
  29. Social
  30. Well-mannered
  31. Analytical
  32. Not sentimental
  33. Talk Precise
  34. Optimistic
  35. Not moody
  36. Not eccentric
  37. Cheerful
  38. Unbiased
  39. Realistic
  40. Not envious
  41. Not jealous
  42. Not suspicious
  43. Open
  44. Non-apprehensive
  45. Not seeking attention
  46. Liberal
  47. Broad-minded
  48. Compromising
  49. Not self-centered
  50. Selfless
  51. Sharing
  52. Generous
  53. Self confident
  54. Psychologically independent
  55. Assertive
  56. Leader
  57. Socially bold
  58. Courageous
  59. Uninhibited
  60. Being balanced
  61. Sympathetic
  62. Helpful
  63. Charitable
  64. Hospitable
  65. Cautious
  66. Responsible
  67. Dutiful
  68. Sincere
  69. Obedient
  70. Reliable
  71. Reasonable
  72. Grateful
  73. Repentant
  74. Truthful
  75. Impartial
  76. Honest
  77. Uncorrupt
  78. Loyal
  79. Moralistic
  80. Having a good memory
  81. Practical
  82. Careful with money
  83. Humble
  84. Not boastful
  85. Respect others
  86. Stable
  87. Ambitious
  88. Perfectionist

[Courtesy: SSRF Inc]

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