Many times we have witnessed that a few people have the habit of approaching you only when there is a need for them or there is something that they would need get accomplished through you. And once the need is accomplished they just forget you totally. The worst part is that sometimes they don’t even consider a gesture of gratitude (acknowledgement/thanks) to you.
People are slowly forgetting the Thirukkural’s guidance on gratitude which says that people who forget to show gratitude are simply unpardonable in all the worlds.
எந்நன்றி கொன்றார்க்கும் உய்வுண்டாம் உய்வில்லை
செய்ந்நன்றி கொன்ற மகற்கு
Me and my friend wanted to share this thought along with two quick case studies. Our guinea pigs for the casestudy were two big corporates based out of chennai – One in Software and other in real estate.
- Swagatham Info Media Company [Contact Person for our Lab Experiment: Sujatha Rajesh]
- Akshaya Homes [Contact Person for our Lab Experiment: Ram (aka) Ramachandran]
Our modus operandi was simple. We wanted to help them by showing a few caveats in their organization, issues in the website, share suggestions for improvements, help them with cost-effective measures for the business. Then to ask them a small favor in return. All things non-monetary strictly.
Whilst they kept acknowledging the favors bestowed upon them smilingly the moment we requested if there was an opportunity for a web designer (we referred some one choosing from Naukri.com after getting his consent verifying that he is good in attitude but challenged economically) they started to show a different color.
- Sujatha was replying to us in a hard and harsh tone fabricating stories and giving an impression that she is suffering from a perceived hallucination that the way of request was not good, resume was worst and so on and so forth.
- Ram started to give cock-and-bull stories that he was in a customer call and then travelling and such crazy things.
Just thought we would share these case-studies with the readers so that people be aware of such creatures mixed in them. We are not cared about their return of service to us. The objective of this sting is to bring such blacksheeps to the limelight of the general public. By just taking a free lunch from their side they have ended up in owing to us if not in this birth but in subsequent births.
